I've been having a thoughtful discussion with a blogging friend of mine. We've been talking about the reality of homeschooling... how it really works with a three year old in tow, what curriculum we use and things like that. I would love, love, love to hear your comments about how your day goes -- and how you arrive at your homeschool curriculum decisions!
Here's part of my email letter to my friend... I'll add in a few pictures too!
You were talking about how difficult it is to work with your five year
old when your 3 year old is playing. Goodness, I know how that is! My
little one wants to be in the middle of things. It's slightly easier to
involve her now that she's older. So, if I'm playing a math game with DD (5) then I'll
let ED turn over the cards or spin the spinner, etc. and ask her to identify the numbers. (top picture)
Sometimes I just
reach into the cabinet and bring out five activities and spread them
around us hoping something will catch her attention (second picture). And sometimes, I
wind up homeschooling with ED climbing on my back and head (no
kidding!!). Ugh! So, it's often a challenge -- and I'm often left
feeling that I haven't "done enough" quality work with DD (or LD). The other
'problem' is that the kids play so happily that it's hard to draw them
back to what *I* want to accomplish.
Just now, for example, I was playing math games with DD. LD came in and
wanted to play. Once the game was over that sparked an idea in their
heads and they ran off to play robot wars with the glass bead math
manipulatives we had been using. Sigh... what *I* wanted to do was have
them finish some math-workbook time.
And ED? She is happily occupied, BUT is taking out thing after thing and creating a picnic with all the stuff. Just a half hour ago, the carpet was picked up and clean.
Writing -- DD has worked in some random store-bought workbooks for handwriting, but I haven't yet had her work regularly in
Handwriting Without Tears. It didn't resonate with her -- and she preferred the preschool workbook I had picked up somewhere else.
She is happy writing notes and letters to people on her own -- and I
want to encourage that free form kind of writing. Every now and then I
pull out a particular letter (a worksheet on the letter "n" for example)
if I see her writing it improperly. But she doesn't do much in the way
of formal writing lessons yet. I'm not going to start her on cursive at any
point soon. I'll re-evaluate that in another 6 months or so.
I will probably start working with her on "All About Spelling" level
one once LD is done with that book (he has one more lesson). I
really, really love that program and would highly recommend it. LD has
really come far with it (he is a very, very reluctant writer).
I have been using
Write Source Skills Book grade one with LD to help him with his writing. I like it a lot and
ordered another Grade One
workbook
for DD to start using. (I am using the skills book/workbook ($7.15)
NOT the student book or teacher's edition.)
It talks about some basic rules of writing like
*starting a sentence with a capital letter
*leave a space between your words
*end each sentence with an end mark
*use complete thoughts (with a subject and verb)
*. ? !
*commas ,
*contractions
These are all basic rules -- and then I expand on them in another blank
book -- creating various exercises for LD. Sometimes I write
sentences and having him put in the correct punctuation, fix the capital letters, etc. (I put in an example to the left.) Or
sometimes I have him write sentences on his own paying particular
attention to the rules we've gone over. In other words, I use that
Write Source workbook as a jumping-off point. I also try to add in other language activities that compliment what we're working on like this
contraction sort from Oceans of First Grade Fun, for example. The more hands-on I can make things for LD the better.
I just ordered
First Language Lessons from Amazon
and
ordered
Writing with Ease from the library by Susan Bauer after reading some
wonderful reviews. I'll decide whether I want to incorporate them into
our day/week.
**I'm adding in later -- I got
Writing With Ease from the library and have read through and glanced through most of it. It emphasizes copywork and narration especially in the first years. I had LD do a lot of copywork in first grade, but I'm not sure I would do this again (exclusively) with my other children. It did not seem to help him much with getting the flow of writing words (if this makes sense) or learning to form words on his own. In my opinion, the skills he has taken from
All About Spelling has served him MUCH better than all the work he did copying sentences. I *did* take some things from this book and may incorporate some aspects of her narration exercises, but for me personally I will not use
Writing with Ease as a curriculum for writing.
**And also adding in a few days later that
First Language Lessons arrived and I can see that'll work really well for our family. DD already memorized the first poem!
Let's see -- we obviously do our unit studies all together. The kids
work on music separately (DD does the glockenspiel, LD does the piano). We have music classes with friends.
I am hoping to re-start our German lessons together very soon. DD is particularly
keen to learn that. I have some new books and really hope to
incorporate that into our routine.
You were asking if I follow any "guidelines." That's a difficult
question to answer. I am an eclectic homeschooler, so I really use lots
and lots of sources. I regularly read and look through books like "What
your Second Grader needs to know" or look through the
Typical Course of Study for kindergarten or second grade -- -- but rarely use
that when designing our curriculum. I just keep those kinds of things in
the back of my mind.
Oh--and I also get a lot of advice and wisdom (not to mention printables) from various teacher's blogs out there -- such as
Chalk Talk (kindergarten),
What the Teacher Wants or
Oceans of First Grade Fun. (
I have some of my other favorite teacher's blogs listed here--scroll down to the green section.)
For history I have just been gradually moving forward through time.
For science I spend a LOT of time looking at the Montessori 6-9 science
general topics and look through the contents of various curriculums out
there (
Noeo Science- or
Real Science 4 Kids). Our units often stem from the
topics covered in these other curriculums, but more often than not, I
pull things together myself. And I also ask the kids periodically what
THEY want to study. When LD said he wants to learn plants, plants,
plants, plants (!!)... I kept my ear to the ground and jumped on the
Junior Master Gardener curriculum when I heard about that. But our
lapbooks (like DD's lapbooks on penguins and sunflowers this semester)
came from what she said she wanted to study.
By the way, by time I finished writing this email to my friend every cabinet door was open and DD had helped herself to board games, puzzles, math manipulatives, stickers and more. Creative mess. And -- self entertaining. Yes, embrace these traits, right?!!! And get them to happily help me clean up afterwards! :-)
My time is about up. I really enjoy hearing from others. knowing I'm not alone in the homeschooling
adventure!! Please leave a comment if you have the time! Can't wait to hear from you.